Monday, May 11, 2009

A few things I've learned...

Thanks so much to everyone who commented here and on my FB account about what it means to be a mother. Your comments were great- and very inspiring- they were great in my talk yesterday! In honor of Mom's Day, I'm including in this post my list (from my talk yesterday) of a few things I've learned in the last 7.5 years of motherhood...

I've learned:

You can clean nearly anything out of carpet with either ammonia or shaving cream.

It is often better to listen than to talk.

Adhesive bandages have magical healing powers.

Nothing compares to the young testimony of a little child as they share with you their thoughts about Jesus.

Not to be offended that when the children play house, the mother is always dead.

Family activities and projects are never perfect, and that's okay.

Family home evening, no matter how raucous and loud, is precious time.

"Furniture" is synonymous with "playground" in the vocabulary of a four-year-old.

The carpet will always be dirty, the patio door covered in fingerprints, mysterious odors will linger in the laundry room, but babies will grow and change and we will never have those moments back.

Grandparents are angels.

Children will clean any mess if they can do it like a superhero.

Sometimes we just need to cry in the pantry for a few minutes, and that's okay.

Martha Stewart did NOT have five children aged seven and under.

A little individual time with a child does wonders for behavior.

Never break a promise.

My Heavenly Father knows me, He knows my children- HIS children, and wants us to be happy.

Relief Society is often that- a RELIEF. There is great wisdom to be found among those who have done it before, and great support to be found among our sisters in the trenches.

Above all, prayer is a lifeline. It is the ultimate resource, the channel by which we plead our hearts desires, cry out the pain in our hearts, and receive quiet answers.


Hope your Mother's Day was a great one! Hang in there Mommies, you're doing the most important work there is- and in the immortal words of Zac Ephron, "We're all in this TOGETHER! " :)

Thursday, May 7, 2009

Mother's Day Tea

I LOVE the preschool the trio attends. They do the most creative, cute FUN activities and they LOVE going (Yay!)!


Today we had the "Mother's Day Tea". They transformed the meeting room into rows and rows of pink tables with real tea cups and finger sandwiches. The kids sang us a song and gave us presents. It was very sweet. Here are my gifts:




They came wrapped like this:


So, my other favorite part was the paper they each gave me called

"Some Important Stuff About My Mom"

(answers are color-coded: Soph, Henry, Charlie)

My Mom's name is AMBERLYN/AMBER/AMBER

She is ABOUT 14/100/18 years old and her favorite color is BLUE & GREEN/RED/PINK.

My mom's favorite food is GROWN-UP YOGURT/PIZZA DIPPED IN RANCH/PASTA.

Her job is TO HELP US CLEAN OUR ROOMS/CLEANING THE DISHES FOR US/HELP ME PUT ON MY BATHING SUIT SHIRT FOR SWIMMING LESSONS.

When my mom and I want to have some fun, we GET ICE CREAM TOGETHER/GO TO SUPER JUMP PARTY ZONE/GO TO THE STORE AND GET FOOD.

My special Mother's Day words for my Mom are: "I LOVE YOU"/"I LOVE YOU"/"YOU'RE BEAUTIFUL!"

I love that! I will keep those little treasures for ever and ever! Thanks kiddos!

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Earnest Query...

So, I've been asked to speak in Sacrament meeting next week on Mother's Day. Topic? Mother's Day. I am bracing myself for the inevitable fact that this assignment will bring with it an unneccessarily difficult week of mothering, requiring me to do some extreme soul searching and brain racking to find worthwhile things to say (yes, I'm being brutally honest- but doesn't it always happen that way?) I'm just being real- anyone who knows me KNOWS that I adore my children, in spite of all their sneaky, loud, irrational naughtiness.

So I'm asking, simply said, what is the BEST part of being a mom and the MOST DIFFICULT part of being a mom? Please reply. I need feedback. You'd really be doing me a service here, folks. You might even get a shout-out. Yes, you could be famous among the throng of Victor Falls Ward-goers. Please help me. Don't make me beg.

Thanks friends.

Tuesday, March 31, 2009

Tallulah Party- TONIGHT!

Hey Everybody! Just a little reminder- Tallulah Twinkletoes "Spring Soiree" tonight at my house, 7-9pm. Bring your Easter dresses and favorite Spring outfits to coordinate- and check out the new Kufi caps and Princess clippies! Totally adorable!!!!

See you there!

Thursday, February 5, 2009

Big Thanks...

To everyone who attended and helped with mom's big 60th surprise! It was so much fun- and I think she was genuinely surprised- especially when Ash walked in the room! We had a great weekend- got pictures taken of the cousins together (adorable) and spent a lot of quality time together. I wish Ash and Chris lived closer- I love when we get to all be together!

Thursday, January 29, 2009

Check out...

my rockstar husband on his newest post on "Can't We All Just Blog Along?". Hilarious, moving, profound, all wrapped into one. Love that guy.

Tuesday, January 27, 2009

Tallulah Open House- TONIGHT!

Come one, come all! My house, 7pm. Treats, bows, tutus, you know the drill. Come see the new Valentine's stuff. CUTE. :)